Do you remember the time when you fell in love with your bf?

Butterflies in your stomach, sweet glances exchanged..

You'd stammer when speaking to each other, feeling nervous and excited...

As both of u get to know each other more...the chemistry was impeccable..

You feel at ease with each other...speaking to each other about things you never thought you would..

Learning more about each other day by day...

Anticipation builds up..

...you're excited to embark on this relationship with the other half...






Over time...quarrels surfaced...arguments rose...things that were not of importance in the past somehow seemed to matter a whole lot more than you think..

Expectations ...aspirations....grew at a rate that you'd never realise...

All these happen over time..and you trying to grasp a balance between all ...

Faltering and falling along the way.....only to realise that it takes alot more than just being in love..

Misunderstandings creeped in without your knowledge....accumulating layer by layer...

Mixed feelings of uncertainty grew in strength..

You start to doubt yourself...is Something you hate to do, with someone as much pride as you...





When you fail..you question yourself first before the other....

Questioning how compatible you are with the person..

Questioning the things you've done for the person..

Questioning how you treated the person..

Questioning the effort you made..

Questioning ...Everything .

Cos you wanna seek the answers from yourself first...





The hurt that both never realised we brought to each other ....came to light in front of you...

Try as you might, you sense the helplessness about certain situations....

Saddening as it is... you cannot do anything to change it as it has passed....

Upon the sudden realisation...only then you'd be aware...

That the world doesn't revolve around you only...

Are you willing to let go of the pride in you..

And relearn how to understand and accommodate the other...

Cos some things will always be the way it is...

And its up to us to make a difference in it.