How Your Attitude Ranks

Your Attitude is Better than 70% of the Population If you scored... 80-100: You've got a winner attitude. You're always optimistic and cheery. Your personality will get you far in life. 60-79: You have a good attitude. While a realist, you do see the positive side of most things. People love to be around you. 40 - 59: You have a positive attitude... somtimes. You prefer to see the world through clear glasses, not rose colored ones. 20 - 39: You have an average attitude. You take the good and bad in life as they come. Though sometimes you could use a little more good. 0-19: You have a negative attitude. You tend to see the dark side of every situation. Free ice cream? No thanks, it will just make you fat!

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I got my pic up~
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Ok, i got the picture up liao..dono why it wasnt working last time. hmm..

anyway..this is the chimpanzee that i mentioned in my previous entry. CUTE? hee.

alrighty since i'm here..i shall write something.

Hmm..I've just measured all the diameters of my room and the measurements for the wardrobe and the small cabinet..i shall look source for them at IKEA tomorrow. I better do it while i still havent found a job..else i might just not find time again.

well, notign much to write..i shall write bout a topic.

Question:
Why is it that feelings will be lost over time of not seeing each other, but when people are together they take for granted the friendship? This applies to relationships too.

Definitely with long periods of not seeing each other possibly years, the feelings will begin to fade..and of cos things would not be the same as they are before. Then..when you see each other again..the kind of feelings that you thought you would still harbour in the past are different.

The feelings are kinda different ..and its something that you have no control over. The fact that some people never put in effort in friendships and play only the passive role in maintaining contact between both of you..maybe over time..u'll slowly lose contact with the friend altogether...

When all of us are busy with our lives ..its these gestures that maintain the friendship. A note, an update or a gathering once in a while to let them know that they are worth your time to meet. But these actions can't be always played by the active party while the passive one stays that way throughout .. cos as i mentioned..overtime..you soon understand that the friend might just be too difficult for keeps and that he/she doesnt seem to value you as much as you do to him/her.

Friendships should not be taken for granted. A best friend whom has known you for donkey years since sec sch lets say..and a boyfriend whom you have just met for 3 months. Between the 2, do you dare say that the bf knows you better than your best friend? I doubt. At least for myself. However over time, possibly the distance between the 2 friends widen only to give way for the bf.

Hmm..a bf might leave you one day..however a friendship that has weathered some tough times will not.(unless you do something to jeopardise it)<----how to spell.

Treat people the way you want them to treat you..however if after long periods of time, you don't get treated the way that you deemed you should..maybe its time to think about whether the friend is for keeps?

Its the everyday actions that prove more important than a once-in-a-few-years action. When the latter occurs, you might not feel it is sometihng worth being happy about. Haha..that illustration seems vague. . but nvm. . .

Between the passive and active role, which are you?




the pic is testing purpose too. B2.